There are times children think others are not their friends but don't know why. This is the case in "Enemy Pie" by Derek Munson. Jeremy Ross moves into the neighbourhood and ruins one boy's summer or so the boy thinks. The boy asks his Dad for advice on how to get rid of an enemy. Dad suggests baking an enemy pie but before they can eat the pie, the two boys have to spend the day together.
After the story, I asked the children "did the enemy pie help the two boys become friends?" The response was no because playing together made them friends. This statment started a conversation on how we can ask others to play or join a game especially if it is someone we have never played with before.
We decided to make a Friendship Pie. Before we could develop the recipe, the children had to identify what qualities they bring to a friendship. This gave the children an opportunity to reflect on how each of them contribute to their friendships in their own way.
Here is our Friendship Pie recipe:
1 cup of hugs 4 cups of caring
1/2 cup of play 1/3 cup of smiles
2 cups of kind words 9 cups of helping
1/2 cup of sharing 2 presents (birthday and Christmas)
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| Stirring hugs and caring. |
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| Making playdough pie |
All of this talk of pie made us hungry. The children voted as to what pie to make. No surprises here, chocolate was the choice. As we made the pie, we made sure we added all of the ingredients from our own friendship pie recipe.
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| "I choose apple." |
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| Adding chocolate. |
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| Adding pie filling. |
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| Working together. |
This is so cute!!! Stephanie
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